CHIVALRY BEEN DEAD...

"WHEN YOU TAKIN ME OUT?", "YOU NOT GON OPEN THE DOOR FOR ME?" HERE'S MY FAV, " WE DON'T SPEAK CAUSE U DON'T CALL ME". WELL I GUESS YOU AIN'T PAY YA BILL THEN, SINCE U CAN ONLY RECEIVE CALLS!! LOL. CUT IT OUT LOVE!! WE'RE LIVIN IN A DAY AND AGE WHERE THE FINE LINE BETWEEN COURTESY AND OBLIGATION HAS BEEN BLURRED. WOMEN ARE BEHAVIN LIKE MEN AND MEN ARE BEHAVIN LIKE WOMEN. THEY'RE BECOMIN MORE AND MORE INTIMIDATED BY A WOMAN'S ECHELON. SAD BUT TRUE. WHAT'S MORE INTERESTIN IS THE FACT THAT THESE SAME LINES U MAY HEAR FROM WOMEN ARE A DIRECT RESULT FROM SUCH LINES AS "I DON'T NEED NO MAN TO DO NUTHIN FOR ME" OR "I'M STRONG AND INDEPENDENT WOMAN" OR "I GET MY OWN MONEY". A SELF-INFLICTED WOUND IF U WILL. THIS SAME SUPER-INDEPENDENT MENTALITY IS WHAT HAS PUSHED BROTHERS AWAY FROM BEIN GENTLEMEN. SORRY LADIES, BUT U BROUGHT DIS UPON YOURSELF. MEN WANNA FEEL NEEDED, THEY WANT TO BE ABLE TO PROVIDE, EVEN IF YOU MAKE MORE MONEY THAN THEM. SO WITH ALL THIS GASSIN DAT DESTINY'S CHILD IGNITED, WOMEN HAVE BEEN SO "IN YOUR FACE" WITH DIS NEW FOUND CONFIDENCE. IT'S IN MEN'S FACES SO MUCH, DAT GUYS R JUS SAYIN "OK,DO YOU" LOL..."WHAT DO U NEED ME FOR?" THE VERY SAME ATTITUDE IS WAT HAS MEN BECOMIN COMPLACENT WITH MEDIOCRITY; NOT HAVIN TO BE AS EFFICIENT AS THEY WERE IN DA DAYS OF CHIVALRY. ITS WHY 9/10 TIMES, DAT INITIAL PHYSICAL ATTRACTION MIGHT NOT GO PAST DAT. UNLESS U LEAVE A LANE OPEN FOR HIM TO BE DAT MAN FOR YOU, HE WON'T BE. CHIVALRY BEEN DEAD, TIMES ARE CHANGIN, BUT LADIES, LET A MAN BE DA MAN, AND STOP TRYNA PUFF YA CHEST OUT AS FAR AS HE DOES. I LOVE AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN, BUT HUMILITY IS KEY. TALK TO ME LADIES...STAY TUNED, MORE IMPORTANTLY, STAY BLESSED. MYLEZ MENG!!